Spicy Truth or Dare questions can turn a classic playground game into a hilarious adult affair. Playing is easy – each player in turn chooses to take on a truth or a dare, and everyone else decides on a cheeky question or an unusual challenge. The hardest part of the game, however, is coming up with enough spicy ideas. This guide offers 150 of the best Truth or Dare questions for adults – plus 20 dares as an added bonus.
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To help you choose your desired level of spice, all our top-class Truth and Dare ideas below are listed in ascending order of naughtiness – starting with the relatively tame and working up to the positively filthy.
Best Truth or Dare questions for adults:
Barely spicy truth or dare questions
- Have you ever shoplifted? What did you take?
- What’s your most embarrassing experience while drinking?
- What’s the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?
- Do you have a type?
- What’s the best way to flirt with your partner?
- What gives you ‘the ick’?
- What’s the worst first date you’ve ever been on?
- Of everyone you’ve kissed, who was the worst?
- Do you have a dating app horror story?
- What’s the worst pick up line anyone’s ever used on you?
- What cartoon character most reminds you of your partner?
- What’s the silliest reason you ever broke up with someone?
- What bad habit of yours does your partner hate?
- What’s the shortest amount of time you’ve been single for?
- What’s the longest amount of time you’ve been single for?
- When you’re in a relationship, would you let someone else buy you a drink at a bar?
- Do you want to have children? Why or why not?
- Do you get on with your partner’s parents?
- How long do you have to be in a relationship before you can fart in front of your partner?
- On a scale of one to ten, how would you rate your kissing skills?
- How soon is too soon to say ‘I love you’ for the first time?
- Do you poop while your partner is in the bathroom with you?
- What were the most obvious signals someone was into you that you still totally missed?
- When was the last time you ate something off the floor?
- What was your most embarrassing bathroom accident?
- What’s your grossest personal habit?
- What scares you the most?
- What’s the weirdest thing about your body?
- Do you enjoy popping pimples?
- What’s the longest you’ve ever gone without showering?
- What’s an embarrassing fact you know about someone in this game?
- On a scale of one to ten, how would you rate your partner’s kissing skills?
Sort of spicy truth or dare questions
- Who’s number one on your ‘list’?
- Have you ever been naked in public?
- Have you ever written a fanfic online?
- Do you ever ‘go commando’ in public?
- Who’s the weirdest person you have a crush on?
- Would you lie to your partner to make them feel better?
- Have you ever texted an ex while drunk?
- What’s the sexiest thing you look for in a partner?
- Have you ever had a friend with benefits? How did it go?
- Have you ever had a whirlwind romance on vacation?
- What is your partner’s secret, sexy pet name for you?
- Have you ever been to a strip club? If not, would you like to?
- Do you consider watching porn to be cheating?
- Have you ever cheated on a partner?
- What’s the sexiest piece of underwear you own?
- How flexible is your sexuality?
- What’s one bedroom activity you’ll never, ever try?
- Do you read dirty novels?
- If you met your doppelganger, would you sleep with them?
- What was your first ever sexual experience like?
- How many different people have you had sex with in your life?
- How many different rooms in your home have you had sex in?
- Have you ever had sex with someone famous?
- What’s the best food to use in the bedroom?
- What’s your perfect song to have sex to?
- What’s the sexiest thing a person can do?
- Have you ever hooked up at a wedding?
- What’s a smell you find sexy, even if it shouldn’t be?
- Have you ever had sex in public?
- Have you ever masturbated at work?
- Have you ever had sex at the office?
- Have you ever walked in on someone having sex?
- Have you ever had sex underwater, or in a pool?
- Have you joined the Mile High Club (had sex in an airplane)?
- Have you ever had sex with someone who’s name you don’t know?
- Have you ever had sex in someone’s house without them finding out?
- Have you ever gotten frisky in a movie theater?
- Have you ever had sex in a car?
Very spicy truth or dare questions
- What’s the best sexual experience you’ve ever had?
- What was the best orgasm you ever had?
- How much noise do you make when having sex?
- Where’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
- What’s the most awkward thing that’s ever happened to you during sex?
- What’s the weirdest sex dream you ever had?
- What’s the silliest porn movie you’ve ever seen?
- What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever been called in bed?
- What’s something you find sexy that objectively isn’t?
- What’s the dumbest thing you’ve ever said during sex?
- What’s the worst ‘sex tip’ you’ve ever seen or heard?
- What movie monster would you most like to sleep with?
- What ordinary thing turns you on?
- Do you leave scratch marks?
- Have you ever had sex with a stranger?
- What’s the best liquid to lick off another person?
- What’s a great sext you remember getting?
- Have you ever pretended to finish when you didn’t?
- Do you have any special sexual talents?
- What’s your most embarrassing sexting story?
- What’s the least satisfying sexual experience you’ve ever had?
- Have you ever been caught masturbating?
- Have you ever been caught having sex?
- Have you ever slept with someone because they were super hot, even though you didn’t really like them?
Extremely spicy truth or dare questions
- Have you ever had a sexual fantasy come true – and what was it?
- What’s your favorite genre of porn?
- Do you have a favorite porn star?
- Would you rather spank someone, or get spanked?
- Do you like things in your butt?
- What’s the oddest thing you’ve done in the bedroom?
- What’s your favorite sex position and why?
- What’s your favorite sex toy and why?
- How many sex toys do you currently own?
- What’s your most secret sexual fantasy?
- Have you ever had sex with more than one person at once?
- Have you ever had sex with four or more people at once?
- Have you ever filmed yourself having sex?
- What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever masturbated to?
- Have you ever done sexy roleplay with a partner? What roles did you play?
- Have you ever used your feet on a partner?
- Latex, leather, or lingerie?
- Are you a top or a bottom?
- Have you done ‘bagpiping’, and if not, would you try?
- Are you a sadist or a masochist?
- Are you dominant or submissive?
- Would you rather tie someone up, or be tied up?
- Are you a master of giving head? Justify your claim!
- What’s the most orgasms you’ve ever had in one day?
- How many fingers can you fit?
- Have you ever used something that wasn’t a sex toy as a sex toy (including with a partner)?
- Have you ever tried partner-swapping?
- Have you ever been pegged / pegged someone?
- Have you ever worn a gimp suit?
- What’s the kinkiest thing you like to do during sex?
- Have you ever been to an orgy?
- What’s the biggest sex toy you’ve ever used (including with a partner)?
- What’s the worst sex thing you’ve ever done that you’d do again for the right person?
- What’s the weirdest object you’ve ever used during sex (or solo play)?
Dares for truth or dare
Funny dares
- Let another player post on your social media.
- Make a prank call.
- Shout something silly in public (your friends can decide).
- Make up a rude song about a friend.
- Talk in a British accent for the rest of the game (or an American accent, if you’re British).
- Try to put both feet behind your head.
- For the rest of the game, speak only using words of four letters or less.
Gross dares
- Lick someone else’s foot.
- Eat an entire raw vegetable.
- Drink a mix of everyone’s drinks, plus ketchup.
- Sing the rudest song you know.
- Try to fart or burp on command.
- Stick your head in the trash for 30 seconds.
Spicy dares
- Run a lap of the house naked.
- Give someone a lap dance.
- Put ice cubes down your pants.
- Kiss another player.
- Passionately kiss a photograph.
- Demonstrate your oral sex technique using gestures and verbal tips.
How to play Truth or Dare
Playing Truth or Dare is super easy, even if dealing with the potential embarrassment of a spicy truth or ridiculous dare can ramp up the tension fast! Here’s how to get a game started:
- Get some friends together – ideally folks you know well, but not so well that you already know all their dirtiest secrets.
- Sit in a rough circle – so everyone knows whose turn is next.
- Start playing – each player, in turn, gets asked: Truth or Dare?
- If they pick Truth, either the group as a whole, or the player who went last, asks them one of our questions above, and they must answer honestly, or perform a forfeit.
- If they pick Dare, it’s the same – but they must perform a Dare, or face a forfeit if they refuse to try.
- Play as long as everyone’s having fun – there’s no scoring or winning in Truth or dare; the game just keeps going until most players want to stop (maybe you’re getting bored, or it’s time to head to the club). The key thing is to wrap things up before anyone stops having fun.
Top tips for a successful Truth or Dare night
We’re a bit old and boring these days, and spend more time playing Magic: The Gathering and painting miniatures than we do spilling truths over drinks – but we played more than our share of Truth or Dare in college, and as seasoned game analyzers, we’ve got some useful tips you should follow to have the best possible game:
- Read the room – Truth or Dare is a game about making each other a bit uncomfortable, that’s the fun of it – but there’s a fine line between breaking down barriers with your friends, and making people mad, sad, or freaked out. Especially if you’re the party host, be mindful of how good a time everyone’s having, and wade in politely if you think it’s necessary to keep the whole group having fun.
- Consider the couples – Couples are great for Truths, as they know where all each other’s bodies are buried, and can unearth the most entertaining stuff. But they can make things boring when it comes to spicy dares – where’s the fun in forcing people to kiss someone that’s already their partner? Consider using house rules to make sure couples don’t lean on each other to avoid their duty to the game!
- Set no-go areas if necessary – A game where everyone’s expected to spill their deepest secrets, even embarrassing ones, can occasionally touch on topics or areas that are particularly sensitive for certain players, or could even bring up traumatic memories. As the host, if you’re already aware of risks like that, think of a way to introduce a house rule that avoids it coming up, without ‘outing’ the person – there’s no shame in having a banned topics list. It might sound over-cautious, but we’ve had some rough moments like this in the past, and everyone’s there to have fun – so think about it.
That’s all for now! If you made it through my juiciest Truth or Dare questions, you might also enjoy our world-leading guide to the best sex board games, or the list of our favorite sex dice games to try out in the bedroom.
Source: Wargamer
